The downside of instant gratification
Dienstag, 24. August 2010
Ask any passionate coffee drinker, a true afficionado, about instant coffee and you will know what I mean. Sure, there are many instances where instant is perfect. Usually when we want something out of the way: administrative tasks and practical tools for example.
But what about those 'things' that have an emotional value attached to them? I am an afficionado of red wine and 2005 was a superior vintage year for Bordeaux wines. That obviously doesn't mean that we can drink the wine in the same year. We need patience, because a great wine needs many more years of maturing naturally until it reaches its pinnacle. Do you remember your first love? Remember the excitement, the anxiety before the first date? Your were nervous, couldn't think straight, felt sleepless, kept looking at your watch and in the mirror, your heart was pounding and heaven knows what else. But wasn't it fantastic? This pleasant anticipation is an integral part of the overall experience as it adds to the overall value. It makes us feel great. We live in an age where thanks to technology, everything seems to be accelerating. Tomorrow today is yesterday. The concept of instant gratification is a necessity to keep that system running. If we're instantly gratified today, we're in the market for the next instant gratification tomorrow. After a while, nothing is special anymore due to the monotonous repetition. We turn into automated, addicted consumers. You just got your 10th smart phone? So what! We have to wake up and decelerate from time to time, we need to give more time to this supposedly unproductive thing called true enjoyment. We have to rediscover the sense of well-being derived from pleasant anticipation. Think about your first date




